Category Archives: Mediation

How do you deal with conflict?

This may be obvious to most, but people do not all handle conflict the same way.  As I sat down to write this, I decided to do a quick google of “handling conflict” and came up with many, many articles … Continue reading

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Differences in perspective

A very important point from Tammy Lenski, on how your perspective and truth are not the same: In a mediation recently, each side was quite sure their memory of the original conflict situation was the right one, the correct one, … Continue reading

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Why mediate?

Perhaps the most basic question someone has to answer when deciding whether to propose or agree to mediation is simply, “Why mediate?”   This is also a very important question: Unless the parties have resolved this question for themselves, there will … Continue reading

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Resolving Church Conflicts

Someone once said, “Where two or more are gathered together, there will be conflict.”  As someone who has been involved in ministry and church leadership for over twenty years, I think there is some truth in this.  While I would … Continue reading

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One size does not fit all

I’ve always been skeptical of claims that “one size fits all,” no matter what you’re talking about; a more accurate claim is probably “this doesn’t fit anyone well.”  This also holds true for conflict resolution.  I’ve spent over 20 years … Continue reading

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